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Since childhood i was a different girl,  a girl dreaming of becoming IAS , very studious, A class Topper,  and the one who dedicated her whole time in studies. I never attained social functions,  never done any other activity other then studies. When i joined engineering my plan was to do IAS after completion of engineering, i choosed engineering because i was passionate about cars and machines,  but unfortunately i didn't got admission in MECHANICAL ENGINEERING IN GOOD COLLEGE  soo i choosed ELECTRICAL ENGINEERING,  that was biggest mistake of my life. A Topper girl started getting backlogs,  got into conditions were i was almost about to get Chronic Depression, by 4th year i have stopped attaining lectures too. Some of my engineering faculty started judging me that "you are not intelligent enough". ....they don't give damm about your previous School Records. I never enjoyed my 4 years of engineering. Everyday was like soo much torcher to me. Did all t

People mistaken karate as art that just includes fighting,  people thinks that beating someone in fight will make them superior,  it will prove their Men power. But all this mentality is totally wrong. Karate is never meant for fighting,  karate was developed with whole purpose of "self defense ". Defeating someone in Tournament fight doesn't prove "one superiority ". Now also, i have heard words like "karate includes brutal combat " , in India when we tell that i m karateka, people judge as "maaramaari hee hoti hai na  karate me". You won't believe but general public has totally taken karate purpose as wrong. And people judge us wrongly. On one hand some parents are encouraging girls to take karate for self defense while on other side , specifically  in some part of India ORTHODOX PEOPLE  has mentality that, if a girl is practicing karate , they will judge  her "No one will marry you , no one marry girl who fights, Be

Often in life we all chase many things like some chase money, some chase health,  some chase wealth,  some chase materialistic things, some chase love.....and much more. Why do people chase things? They chase To find ESCAPISM. People believe that the things they are chasing once achieved will give them lots of happiness and joy in their life.  But What after it is achieved ? For Few days we will be happy, but again we will start thinking that "what we have is not enough" !!!! Few people even get stressed out, because after achieving what they have been striving for, they start feeling emptiness , it take them towards depression /other mental health issues.  To come out of this issue, 1st main thing you have to keep in mind that things can't give you Permanent happiness , Things or people will be there to make you happy for limited time, but after that you have to be alone, people/things don't stay with us lifetime.  Don't get your hap

Every women is being instructed now to learn self defense for her protection, but do you know the most important thing a women should learn is "TO BE COURAGEOUS, COURAGEOUS ENOUGH TO OPPOSE WRONG THINGS LIKE ABUSE ". Every Now and then, women's are being  harrassed,  abused and then the main crime is being raped. Have you ever thought that these small harrassment leads to big crime ?  In our country,  Women's are being instructed to ignore such people, and that's why crime rate is increasing day by day. Some will oppose saying that i m SPEAKING unrealistic thing, such people might have not seen Real part of our Society. That's why it is most important for a women to be COURAGEOUS,  courageous enough to "speak against wrong,  to take her own stand". When we decides to not Speak up, such people "gets WINGS to do whatever they want" , and this leads to Horrifying Crime. It is my request to every one , especially parents ,please don'