MOST IMPORTANT THING A WOMEN SHOULD LEARN TO PROTECT HERSELF?

Every women is being instructed now to learn self defense for her protection, but do you know the most important thing a women should learn is "TO BE COURAGEOUS, COURAGEOUS ENOUGH TO OPPOSE WRONG THINGS LIKE ABUSE ". Every Now and then, women's are being harrassed, abused and then the main crime is being raped. Have you ever thought that these small harrassment leads to big crime ? In our country, Women's are being instructed to ignore such people, and that's why crime rate is increasing day by day. Some will oppose saying that i m SPEAKING unrealistic thing, such people might have not seen Real part of our Society.

That's why it is most important for a women to be COURAGEOUS, courageous enough to "speak against wrong, to take her own stand". When we decides to not Speak up, such people "gets WINGS to do whatever they want" , and this leads to Horrifying Crime.

It is my request to every one , especially parents ,please don't instruct girls to remain silent, teach her to speak up against wrong. Don't instruct her "You are a girl , you should listen up things" because all small small things make her UNCOURAGEOUS .

Before teaching her SELF DEFENSE, teach her to be COURAGEOUS mentally.

And Yess Rape cases even happens with COURAGEOUS girl, my point here is "when a girl decides to remain silent on small abuse, it leads to big things" we should not remain silent and Should NOT listen up any abuse.

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