"Do other's opinion define you???" |Blog by - NIDHI RAWAL |

As a social media Influencer many times I get dms of people who don't agree with my opinion.

And then i faced a point where i was really affected by other person's opinion. I had taken things very seriously which were told by a person.


I should not had taken  other's opinion very seriously

In life we will meet many types of people, some will agree with us and some will not. Our opinion are  based on experiences, some people may have experience that thing, some may not. It doesn't meant that we are wrong and other one is correct.

9 looks 6 when looked from opposite side......same way everyone have point of view and own individuality.

We should respect other person opinion , one should not degrade anyone by making fun , and should not judge anyone.


And reverse is also applicable.

We should not let others opinion affect us.......if someone is trying to make you feel less valuable by not accepting your mentality, you should stop talking to them and maintain a distance.


Just ask yourself: who the hell is that person to not value your thoughts and judge you?


Sometimes people even judge my blog writing........they are like content is very less and all stuff !!!......i even gave explanations to few but point is why should I give explanations !!


You will find many people judging you on many basics and even doubting your skills.

Why you should not be  affected?

Just tell to yourself "The work i m doing is really great and i have given my 100% in it".

Ask yourself: Is that person who is judging me had done same amount of work as me ? Is he had already excelled in that field?

If answer is No, then you should not be affected by that person's opinion.




Giving guidance and judging someone are totally different things, "Your closed one and family members will guide you throughout the life, but unknown audience on social media will judge you"......Do not mix the both.


Sometimes opinion of unknown people are not wrong,  but at end it should not affect you, you should take it as a constructive criticism and use that as a part of your growth.


"We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path."

                                                       - Paulo Coehlo