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5 MISTAKES THAT YOU SHOULD NEVER COMMIT



1 - Don't be available for someone all the time, they won't value your presence

Everytime life is not about giving all your to someone else, you need to have your own dreams, aspirations,  you should also take out time to work on your own self,  on your mental health as well as physical health.

People in relationship believe that they should be available all the time for the other person, but
in long term it is going to harm you, your importance will be reduced , they will take you granted,  they will not value about your life.

That's why 1st priority should be on your "Ownself".

When we love ourselves,  people will definitely love us


2 - Do not take decisions in a moment, give time then decide


Decisions taken in anger or happiness both proved  to be Harmful.

Decision on anything is a big deal , never take decisions in rush, give proper time then decide.

We are always tend to take wrong decisions in anger, and in too much happiness make us not to see at other side (most of time negative side) of the situation

3 - Things fascinate you ? Doesn't meant that it is meant for you

In education context we hv been always guided that choose field which fasinates you, but it don't  necessarily meant that you will excel at that

1st Notice you have enough skills or not to pursue that dream.

Many jobs or industry like sports and Bollywood are always fascinating due to glamour and fame, but before just jumping into that, do research on pros and cons.

SPORTS,  BOLLYWOOD,  SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCER  require you to have lots of patience because in beginning no one gets success,  it is years of hardwork that pay off later,  and if you are unable to sustain  failures at initial stage, you may suffer from mental breakdown.



4 - Do not  take decisions on basis of others compliments

If you are aspiring social media Influencer,  you will find lots of people  complimenting  you and asking you to start some sort of business for example launching clothing line, or launching beauty products, or starting your own martial arts academy, .......it can be anything


Don't fall in trap of compliments,  think and then take big decisions


Any business don't just run on compliments by few people,  business requires planning analyzing,  making proper strategies,  marketing and may more things


5 - Never go against family, in bad times family will be always there especially our parents to support

As a youngster,  we always have small issues with our parents on many things.

Even youngsters don't spend time with family,  because they find hanging out or going out with friends as cool

Some youngsters even hide things from family, because  their family is not understanding as well as supportive

In dark,  "our shadow also leaves" , in same way in bad times no one is their to support, but family will always support you.

If you have done something  wrong, Family members might be angry,  you just need to apologize them,   they will strongly support you more then anyone else



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