Just a slap......but nai maar sakta !!!

A movie is releasing titled "Thappad"....it describes a girl ending her years of relationship because that guy slaps her.

Now question arise: Had she done correct? ........yes definitely.

Our society is like : "Ek thappad hee toh maara hai, ishme kya badi baat ho gayi"!!!

The key point for increasing crime on women is "Tolerance" , when doer do the crime and if victim doesn't oppose, it will become habit of doer to repeat things again and again.

From childhood girls are being taught to remain silent......silent in the sense : "if any person do anything wrong , she should not raise her voice, she should tolerate that". ......ofcourse this thing is not taught by everyone, but this thing is passed majorly by parents who has orthodox thinking and upbringing among people who has orthodox mentality.

Whatever crime it can be, from verbal abuse to physical abuse, from 'cuss words' or just a slap.......one should learn to oppose that.

It is not just gender specific....vise versa is equally applicable.

Household abuse cases are result of this "tolerance" only. Relationship are made from love, people let go abuse just because that person is close one, but then if things get repeated it leads to daily abuse.

Below scenario is of verbal abuse:

If your loved one shouted at you infront of many people what will you do??......let go ???.......many people do the same.

Instead you should do this:

You should ask that person to apologize, if that person can "shout infront of everyone" then that person should also know "how to apologize infront of everyone".

If you are not okay with someone speaking "cuss words at you" then you should tell that person to not use these words on you.

Nowadays youngsters are very cool with using "cuss words/gali" , but then when these words are used on your partner in form of anger it leads to verbal abuse.

Abuse in any form is not acceptable, just doing
"once" would not reduce the fact that it is a abuse.

Instead of tolerating "Learn to oppose abuse".

No one is going to help you, you have to stand yourself against abuse. You have to raise your own voice. Stay strong to fight. and have guts to walk away from abusive person

Title :Taken from movie "Thappad".

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