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JUDGEMENTAL HAI KYA?


In life we have been taught  "MORAL VALUES "  from childhood. It teaches us what is correct and what is incorrect, and other society norms.  Definitely  these are  necessary .

There is one bad outcome of "MORAL VALUES " . People start being judgmental,  judgmental about everything around them.


Discrimination is created from this judgmental nature of people.

At one point  or other we all start judging people from their habits .......like in some cultures it has been taught that the "people who drink alcohol,  smoke,  or eat non veg are not good one's".


I had also been taught the above things. I was judging people who smoke or drink as bad one's.  When i joined university, we had all kind of people from different different cultures.....i realized the things which are not accepted in some culture, is very common in other.


I realized every culture  has their own thinking. Things which are accepted in one,  may not be accepted in other.  Who are we to judge people??.


We are no one to judge people on basis of "Caste, Creed, Color, their habits, money ....or anything else".


It is one's individual choice to do whatever they want,  if you don't like them stay away.......instead of judging them.

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