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In era where Mental health is given more priority  , we all have been taught that "If someone is going through any problem, we should listen to that and help them" because it will lessen their mental pressure. That's why we don't mind listening to any friend's  problem. We always guide them. Most of us have very helpful nature, we don't mind listening anyone's problem and helping them , but problem arise when they just start depending on us. But do you know , it has very adverse effect on your mental health too.... The person whom your are helping will start depending on you, you will feel your freedom is lost, and then a time will arise that will make you feel "Your own Mental Health being Detroit" . After some time , you will feel that person as irritating,  their company will  not make you feel good,  their text will spoil your day. That's why be careful while helping up others,  you have not signed any bond to help all...

Lovezoned?????......Yes you heard it right, girls are getting lovezoned instead of friendzoned. This word may sound new but this is happening in society. Now a days girls are normalized in having friendship with boys but what she get back is  getting lovezoned. Let me explain this word clearly In Today's generation it is quite normal making boys friends. But on other hand, something different goes on boys mind. It is  crush or infatuation.....i also don't know but boys want girl as  their "Girlfriend "  ( even without  knowing her) that's why i used word "lovezoned". Girl just do friendship with no other intentions but within few days boys will behave altogether different . They will confess their feelings And when a girl refuses clearly, boys don't even keep friendship. A girl is lovezoned then after refusal boys don't even give damm abt her. And if you truly likes someone respect her, cutting all contacts just prove that i...

When we are least motivated everything becomes very tough,  and yess Demotivation is arrived from constant failure As a human we all want appreciation for our hardwork in form of achievement,  appreciation but if this doesn't go this way Demotivation arises. Watching motivational videos will give you motivation for some time but after that whenever you will be alone , again Demotivation starts up building. Constant failure for 2-3  years can take you towards depression too and will make you uninterested in everything. Your mind will be confused to the extent that you would not be having any idea of what to do in life. One thing to do in such situations is Reading Best seller motivational books. These books helps a lot,  they will teach you mindset, these books have lots of examples of people how they overcomed tough times and constant failures. Another one , the best way to avoid Demotivation is constantly working and putting efforts even after failur...

In today's generation most common thing found is youngsters getting into relationship. 1st relationship was obviously serious but after heartbreak , people rush being in another relationship which results into continuous heart break. Young mind instead of focusing on career,  studies or job whatever,  they starts feeling lonely, if they achieve something also there would be a sense of loneliness Loneliness invites to huge problems. "Researchers have found that loneliness is just as lethal as smoking 15 cigarettes per day. Lonely people are 50% more likely to die prematurely than those with healthy social relationships" Just to get rid of loneliness  Many are getting addicted to  hukka, alcohol,  smoking or various harmful products All these  thing ruin  a person lifes badly. Above things are most commonly observed among people aged from 15- 30 Years. And one of the main reason is that only "heartbreak in relationship" Why i told th...

Often we see some people have so much of attitude.   We judge that person as arrogant. And we never accept anything from such people. But do you know some amount of attitude everyone should possess. Why?? Because if you don't have that attitude people will never value you , and they will start controlling you, they will think that you are nothing. For success also you need some amount of good attitude Today also in many parts of country girls are not given choice to choose their career.  And girls don't progress then ,because she don' t have attitude to fight for herself She could definitely progress if she has the defensive attitude . A attitude to oppose wrong things and stand for her good. Some boys don't able to make progress despite being such intelligent or good at work. Because their attitude is so low , they will listen any stuff from anyone and in this way people start suppressing them And then no progress. Here are just 2 examples,...

People think that i m a quite girl and some thinks that i will tolerate their nonsense. Being in AHMEDABAD And wearing short clothes is okay but some cheap people exist everywhere.  Many times i have faced that so called "cheap" people.  One time I was travelling to " City of Palaces - UDAIPUR". The palace was very beautiful with beautiful carvings. I was getting my picture clicked then suddenly i saw a man and his phone he was standing a lit distance far and was clicking his selfie in such a way that it appears i was with that person,  then what? i  snatched his phone deleted my pictures . Obviously he will never dare to do this again with anyone else. This is just one case many times all these happens and what people around me just say that i should ignore..... what ignore ? someone i don't know is clicking my picture without permission and ignore....!!!!  But i don't ignore, i m COURAGEOUS enough to speak against those people. Many things happe...