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Do we really need someone?





In today's generation most common thing found is youngsters getting into relationship.
1st relationship was obviously serious but after heartbreak , people rush being in another relationship which results into continuous heart break.

Young mind instead of focusing on career,  studies or job whatever,  they starts feeling lonely, if they achieve something also there would be a sense of loneliness
Loneliness invites to huge problems.

"Researchers have found that loneliness is just as lethal as smoking 15 cigarettes per day. Lonely people are 50% more likely to die prematurely than those with healthy social relationships"

Just to get rid of loneliness  Many are getting addicted to  hukka, alcohol,  smoking or various harmful products

All these  thing ruin  a person lifes badly. Above things are most commonly observed among people aged from 15- 30 Years.

And one of the main reason is that only "heartbreak in relationship"

Why i told this is the main reason because from childhood a person is either good in studies or sports or atleast he will be happy doing some stuff which makes him happy

Once the person is in relationship at young age the main focus get diverted, the world of person start revolving around that just one person.

But really we don't need anyone, because when we started being alone we start thinking more and more about ourselves, about success, about earning money. All this leads to a creative idea, which leads us to being successful

In BEGINNING when you are alone after any major setback you will feel like quitting everything, you will lose interest in normal life, you will feel like running away,  but as you start admiring your loneliness into lots of useful time you will achieve a lot in life.

If you have survived this Dark phase you will emerge out as a big winner.

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