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Love marriage or arrange marriage what should we choose ?


Most of generation of 90's and later on believe in love marriage, most of them think that  one cannot live with the person whom  they are "not in love".

In love marriage parents involvement is at very later stage.....at 1st people know each other, make sure that they are compatible for each other or not, and nowadays a new trend is going on of "LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP".

Do you think love has remained the same as it was in past ? ......bcoz of new trend there is a very darkside of all these.

In past families were involved,  "samaj" was involved and many things......despite not being in love people were not cheating at each other,   "breakup and commit again soon " cultures was never there.

People were not breaking up or were not going to court for divorce,  they used to mutually talk as resolves the issue.

But.....now new culture people are left broken, cheated and some even face "blackmailing".

When some issues arise with partner, people are breaking up very easily, because  it is very easy to find NEW ONE...........i told easy because Tinder and many dating apps exist where people fall in love easily.



All these is happening because out of 2 if any one didn't feel compatible then he/she broke up.......for one it might be just normal but for other it is very affecting because of involvement with full Trust and even bodies are involved nowadays.

People are blackmailing to defame name in society and even asking huge amount of money....... why do they blackmail soo easily,  because of "NON INVOLVEMENT OF FAMILY", and "INVOLVEMENT OF BODIES".

We live in INDIA, for our parents "Respect in society" is everything,  they even believe that doing "love marriage/out of caste" will make them unrespectful in society.......and that's the reason family is not involved at 1st stage in love affairs

Arrange marriage doesn't meant at all that you will be marrying completely unknown person.



Society involvement,  Family involvement, whole "Samaj" involvement are the pillars of arrange marriage which makes chances of breaking relationship and cheating comparatively very less.

I m not saying that one is extremely perfect and other is bad, my motto here is just to show you the mirror and make you aware of  society scenarios booming up just because of love marriage



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