What if today is my last day.......?

Someone asked what will i do "if today is my last day"? ........i paused for a moment, i don't know what I will do, but i know what i would not do.

I won't pass my day stressing over things which are not going to matter

This is a era where stress is dominating people, everyone is chasing things

Why do people chase things?

Because of mindset that "Things which they are chasing once achieved will give them permanent happiness".......goal once achieved do give happiness but it disappears within few days or on arrival of new challenges

People are not living in present.

What is living in present meant by?

It means to be happy with whatever things you have, it means enjoying the process of life.

Living in present doesn't meant you should not set goals

Setting goals is part of development. Goals should not take your present happiness

Life is a journey we can't reach end, is end happy ??....no one can predict end !!....it can be happy, sad, worst..........unpredictable

We all are soo busy in setting goals, finding out ways to earn money , to be successful and many other things that we are not enjoying our present day, stress has become part of our daily life.

What if today is your last day?.....you will die lefting all things as they are....money, fame, family, friends, job, education all these things won't follow you.

We don't know about death date....but atleast we can be happy everyday soo that whenever our death occurred we will not be having any regrets of not enjoying our life.

Many CEOs who has fame and wealth have health issues & regret of not living life at fullest.

Everyone has problems in life, no one is completely free from problem, what we can be do is enjoy little things in our life...it can be anything......spending time with family, enjoying sunset with cup of tea, going to gym .

The only way is just to enjoy our life process instead of chasing end goals

"Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live" - from book Tuesdays with morrie

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