If you have ever chased a person or love read this!!!

In Romantic relationships people often chase love.

Why one chase love?

People chase because it is not provided by the partner.

Even the worst scenario: when a person chase his/her love interest by that i mean a person !!!

Chasing partner means running behind someone to get his attention, his validation, his love, his time, basically his presence.

Chasing is not good for your mental health, suppose by running behind that person you may get his attention for that moment, but in long term it will ruin you mentally.

This is how it ruin your mental health:

When you keep running behind a person and that person do not revert back, he may not able to give time, attention, love .....etc, you will get angry and sad and all your mind will be "why he is doing this to me?" Your anger will make you more impulsive.

At 1st impulsive seems to be a normal thing, but at later stage impulsiveness is a serious Mental health issue.

In psychology, impulsivity (or impulsiveness) is a tendency to act on a whim, displaying behavior characterized by little or no forethought, reflection, or consideration of the consequences. Impulsive actions are typically "poorly conceived, prematurely expressed, unduly risky, or inappropriate to the situation that often result in undesirable consequences," which imperil long-term goals and strategies for success. [Source:wikipedia].

You need to immediately visit a doctor if you have following symptoms:

Engage in behaviours that have bad consequences

Increasing lack control over your behaviour

Feel a craving to act on a specific behaviour

Topic i discussed above is one of the reason which may make you impulsive, there are many other reason too.

I m not a psychology Doctor, to learn much more you need to visit a doctor. What i have written is out of observation of people surrounding me.

Before chasing a person remember what is need of chasing love??....

When you need to chase a person in love, then that person is not meant to be with you, love is never chased, or begged one, love is the one which is provided heartily and willingly by other person.

The one who is meant to be with you will come back, don't chase people , let things happen naturally.

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