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RELATIONSHIP ADVICE ONE MUST READ




Valentine's Day just got over and today i - Nidhi Rawal your love Guru 😉 is  going to share some relationship advice that you should adopt for healthy relationship.

Before going into relationship ask yourself this questions:

1 - Are you really in love or it is just rush of hormones?

2 - what do you want from that relationship in longterm?

3 - are you going in relationship just because all your friends are committed?

4  - Do You want to be in relationship just because you feel lonely?


5 - if that relationship becomes serious will you marry that person?

6 - if yes then is intercaste marriage allowed in your culture? Will your parents agree?

Get sure of all these questions 1st, then think of dating someone or getting into relationship. Because your unsurety may ruin SOMEONE'S life.

A person can make you or break you,  choose partner very carefully.



At a young age, for most of people love is just rush of hormones/ mere attraction.

Saying someone "I love you doesn't prove that you really love someone ".


For  most of youngsters love means sending each other gifts , giving  out whole time for each other and getting sexual favours.

But.....but..but.......love doesn't meant that at all.


I m not going to discuss what love means and its definition because for everyone love has different views.

But here are the things to take care if you are in relationship:

1 - Do not get completely dependent on other person mentally as well as physical.


Too much dependence is harmful, if things didn't workout and relationship ends then it will be very much difficult for you to cope up with things. 
Dependence are also of 2 types : 1st Emotional 2nd Physical.

Emotional dependence means getting too much attached to someone mentally, while physical dependence includes getting dependent for money, needs or sometimes even sexual needs.

Too much of both will ruin your life.

2 - Have your own point of view, your own thinking

It is not compulsory to agree on every point with your partner, each individual have own point of view and one should respect that.


3 - Being in relationship doesn't give someone  right to pressurize you to have sexual relationship.

It is completely an individual's choice to have sexual relationship or not, no one should force each other.


4 - love does not mean binding someone

You should have your own freedom, love should not bind you into any types of  norms. You should have freedom to work, talk,  and do whatever things you want to do


Things mentioned in blog are not just limited to above Points,  there are many other issues also , but above are major points you should take care.


"No relationship is absolute – it is always variable. You have to conduct it well on a daily basis"
                                                     - SADHGURU









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