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This is how you can save your relationship from breakup



"Pyaar hua ikrar hua......pyar se phir kyu darta hai hai dil "

Above  lyrics perfectly fits in our life when we are in love

Here are the detailed version of steps everyone goes through in love :

Love interest starts with attraction or many times through common liking/disliking.

In beginning  couples feel soo much loved,  they behaves exact the same way the partner wants, they gives each other whole lot of time, and ....as quote say "love is blind"...is totally True, it make one ignore bad habits of an individual in love.

But later, a stage arise when one feel everything as "too much".....one start feeling that their freedom is snatched away ....one start getting too much irritated of the relationship.....the habits of person which one don't like start showing up.


And eventually many relationships fall apart.

Million of youths go through the same process.

These are the lessons you need to learn for a Good Relationship
 - Don't pretend things in beginning

 - Be real, don't hide ur bad habits just to win the heart of ur love interest

 - "Being in love is not equal to being in cage", that's why giving space is really very important.

Being in love doesn't mean that you should be available all time for your partner. One should  not just simply sit and chat whole day, we are in era where girls as well as boys both have big aspirations, dreams, working goals,  for fulfilling that we require "Alone" Time where we can think and focus about pursuing all these things.


- Being in love doesn't give you right to control life of other person

Most of us at beginning stage wanted that our love interest should only spend time with us.......does being in love means breaking up all other relationships like with family or friends or colleagues ? ...Definitely Not.

For a individual to grow it is equally important to  have all relationship well balanced.

Above description of love affair is general scenario most of youth go through.....exceptional cases are also there as well as there are also people who have learnt lessons from breakup .


"Love can never possess. Love is giving freedom to the other. Love is an unconditional gift, it is not a bargain" - OSHO




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