This is the reason you shouldn't talk about women empowerment

Everyday we talk about women empowerment, equal rights, equal opportunity,..........what does all these terms signify, it just signify that women are not treated equally in our society and even sometimes by using all these terms that we are indirectly pointing a woman lesser compared to a men

We always talked these terms not because a girl lacks skills, it is just because we are trying to prove that men are always dominating.

Women can do anything, she is equally capable as a men, from science to SPORTS, from fashion industry to Top entrepreneur, there is not a single field left where women are not leading.

Women are always INSTRUCTED about what should she do and what she shouldn't......whyyy???....just because of idiology which is pre-existing since years

While growing up she is instructed that "Don't play with boys", "learn cooking because after marriage you have to just be a housewife" , in studies she is instructed "Don't take engineering especially mechanical.....because you can't work as equal capable as a guy", while job seeking she is instructed "Don't take this one, this is not for a girl because it includes field work", "while choosing life partner , she isn't allowed to choose for herself ".....and many other stages where always she has been ordered.

We might not have been Instructed at all the stages, but at some stage we all face the situation where we are told "what we should and what we shouldn't do"

Definitely in our country exist people which treat women as equally as men. But ratio is less comparatively.

Women empowerment doesn't mean that you should treat a girl superior or give her special rights, it is just that she should be treated equally in all terms.

A girl never says that she can't do work , it is just people in society plant in her mind that it is not meant for her.

Girls have all skills it is just that they all are not bloomed up because society doesn't let her to grow.

My message to all girls here is "Don't let other control your life, take decisions which you feel are correct for your growth, live your dreams, be fearless, and we all are equal"

To all boys here, it is your duty to treat everyone around you, with respect not just girls.

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