Are Item songs really cool ?

Chadha jo mujhpe suroor hai
Asar tera yeh zaroor hai
Teri nazar ka kasoor hai
Dilbar dilbar..."

I m feeling disgraceful for writing such lyrics with my picture in caption...

Most people are crazy fan of these "item songs", especially boys.

It will again create debate that "all boys are not like that"....... but there are events when most of boys enjoy such songs like in "parties" , and even girls do dance on such songs......

Is listening such songs signifies we are intentionally promoting wrong things ?

No...but unintentionally we are. Most of you will addresss me "Chill", why are you behaving soo serious, they are just songs.

Soo should we keep on supporting such songs in which "woman is centre of attraction with obscene lyrics and men around looking at her with lusty eyes"..........?!
Indirectly we are promoting them.

These ITEM SONGS are overall choreographed such that it portray woman as object of "satisfaction", those vulgar lyrics are too much, and all men looking at her "lustfully" create sooo much bad impact on people watching such songs .

"Choti dress me bomb lagti mein nu", "Jungle mein aaj mangal karungi main
Bhookhe sheron se khelungi main" .....such lyrics clearly pass soo much wrong message. And Bollywood have soo many songs with nearby vulgar lyrics.

Item songs are really imparting wrong message as well as learning in society.

Educated People of 20 above age are mature enough, but have you ever thought about impact of ITEM song on "A Child who is watching such songs on tv", or on the one "who haven't been taught good moral values", and even on those "who are illiterate as well as they never know how to treat women because either they are from slum or either they have wrong atmosphere".........?!!
Obviously the impact is really bad.

They learn :
- portray a girl as object to satisfy physical need
- some people imitate same scenes (looking at a lady lustfully") which then later lead to gang rapes
- harassing girl with such cheap lyrics
- women love getting harrassed

Rather then enjoying and promoting such songs we all need to stop that. And even we should find ways to stop production of such songs in film industry.

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