BE THE CHANGE WITH NIDHI

Since childhood i was a different girl,  a girl dreaming of becoming IAS , very studious, A class Topper,  and the one who dedicated her whole time in studies. I never attained social functions,  never done any other activity other then studies. When i joined engineering my plan was to do IAS after completion of engineering, i choosed engineering because i was passionate about cars and machines,  but unfortunately i didn't got admission in MECHANICAL ENGINEERING IN GOOD COLLEGE  soo i choosed ELECTRICAL ENGINEERING,  that was biggest mistake of my life. A Topper girl started getting backlogs,  got into conditions were i was almost about to get Chronic Depression, by 4th year i have stopped attaining lectures too. Some of my engineering faculty started judging me that "you are not intelligent enough". ....they don't give damm about your previous School Records. I never enjoyed my 4 years of engineering. Everyday was like soo much torcher to ...

People mistaken karate as art that just includes fighting,  people thinks that beating someone in fight will make them superior,  it will prove their Men power. But all this mentality is totally wrong. Karate is never meant for fighting,  karate was developed with whole purpose of "self defense ". Defeating someone in Tournament fight doesn't prove "one superiority ". Now also, i have heard words like "karate includes brutal combat " , in India when we tell that i m karateka, people judge as "maaramaari hee hoti hai na  karate me". You won't believe but general public has totally taken karate purpose as wrong. And people judge us wrongly. On one hand some parents are encouraging girls to take karate for self defense while on other side , specifically  in some part of India ORTHODOX PEOPLE  has mentality that, if a girl is practicing karate , they will judge  her "No one will marry you , no one marry girl who fights, Be...

Often in life we all chase many things like some chase money, some chase health,  some chase wealth,  some chase materialistic things, some chase love.....and much more. Why do people chase things? They chase To find ESCAPISM. People believe that the things they are chasing once achieved will give them lots of happiness and joy in their life.  But What after it is achieved ? For Few days we will be happy, but again we will start thinking that "what we have is not enough" !!!! Few people even get stressed out, because after achieving what they have been striving for, they start feeling emptiness , it take them towards depression /other mental health issues.  To come out of this issue, 1st main thing you have to keep in mind that things can't give you Permanent happiness , Things or people will be there to make you happy for limited time, but after that you have to be alone, people/things don't stay with us lifetime.  Don't get your h...

Every women is being instructed now to learn self defense for her protection, but do you know the most important thing a women should learn is "TO BE COURAGEOUS, COURAGEOUS ENOUGH TO OPPOSE WRONG THINGS LIKE ABUSE ". Every Now and then, women's are being  harrassed,  abused and then the main crime is being raped. Have you ever thought that these small harrassment leads to big crime ?  In our country,  Women's are being instructed to ignore such people, and that's why crime rate is increasing day by day. Some will oppose saying that i m SPEAKING unrealistic thing, such people might have not seen Real part of our Society. That's why it is most important for a women to be COURAGEOUS,  courageous enough to "speak against wrong,  to take her own stand". When we decides to not Speak up, such people "gets WINGS to do whatever they want" , and this leads to Horrifying Crime. It is my request to every one , especially parents ,please don'...

In era where Mental health is given more priority  , we all have been taught that "If someone is going through any problem, we should listen to that and help them" because it will lessen their mental pressure. That's why we don't mind listening to any friend's  problem. We always guide them. Most of us have very helpful nature, we don't mind listening anyone's problem and helping them , but problem arise when they just start depending on us. But do you know , it has very adverse effect on your mental health too.... The person whom your are helping will start depending on you, you will feel your freedom is lost, and then a time will arise that will make you feel "Your own Mental Health being Detroit" . After some time , you will feel that person as irritating,  their company will  not make you feel good,  their text will spoil your day. That's why be careful while helping up others,  you have not signed any bond to help all...

Lovezoned?????......Yes you heard it right, girls are getting lovezoned instead of friendzoned. This word may sound new but this is happening in society. Now a days girls are normalized in having friendship with boys but what she get back is  getting lovezoned. Let me explain this word clearly In Today's generation it is quite normal making boys friends. But on other hand, something different goes on boys mind. It is  crush or infatuation.....i also don't know but boys want girl as  their "Girlfriend "  ( even without  knowing her) that's why i used word "lovezoned". Girl just do friendship with no other intentions but within few days boys will behave altogether different . They will confess their feelings And when a girl refuses clearly, boys don't even keep friendship. A girl is lovezoned then after refusal boys don't even give damm abt her. And if you truly likes someone respect her, cutting all contacts just prove that i...

When we are least motivated everything becomes very tough,  and yess Demotivation is arrived from constant failure As a human we all want appreciation for our hardwork in form of achievement,  appreciation but if this doesn't go this way Demotivation arises. Watching motivational videos will give you motivation for some time but after that whenever you will be alone , again Demotivation starts up building. Constant failure for 2-3  years can take you towards depression too and will make you uninterested in everything. Your mind will be confused to the extent that you would not be having any idea of what to do in life. One thing to do in such situations is Reading Best seller motivational books. These books helps a lot,  they will teach you mindset, these books have lots of examples of people how they overcomed tough times and constant failures. Another one , the best way to avoid Demotivation is constantly working and putting efforts even after failur...