BE THE CHANGE WITH NIDHI

As a social media Influencer many times I get dms of people who don't agree with my opinion. And then i faced a point where i was really affected by other person's opinion. I had taken things very seriously which were told by a person. I should not had taken  other's opinion very seriously In life we will meet many types of people, some will agree with us and some will not. Our opinion are  based on experiences, some people may have experience that thing, some may not. It doesn't meant that we are wrong and other one is correct. 9 looks 6 when looked from opposite side......same way everyone have point of view and own individuality. We should respect other person opinion , one should not degrade anyone by making fun , and should not judge anyone. And reverse is also applicable. We should not let others opinion affect us.......if someone is trying to make you feel less valuable by not accepting your mentality, you should stop talking to them and mainta

In Romantic relationships people often chase love. Why one chase love? People  chase because it is not provided by the partner. Even the worst scenario: when a person  chase his/her love interest by that i mean a person !!! Chasing partner means running behind someone to get his attention,  his validation,  his love, his time, basically his presence. Chasing is not good for your mental health, suppose by running behind that person  you may get his attention for that moment, but in long term it will ruin you mentally. This is how it ruin your mental health: When you keep running behind a person and that person do not revert back, he may not able to give time, attention,  love .....etc,  you will get angry and sad and all your mind will be "why he is doing this to me?" Your anger will make you more impulsive. At 1st impulsive seems to be a normal thing, but at later stage impulsiveness is a serious Mental health issue. In psychology, impulsivity (or i

This is a digital world and soo is people,  everything is getting online and a virtual world is  getting created. Here i m mentioning about few types of people one should stay away online  1 The one who misuse your pictures  These group of people include a person who steal your personal pictures and will post anywhere,  pretending your account as their own. They can even copy your stuff , your content,  if you find any report immediately to Instagram. Keep an eye on your followers profile, this is the only way to find out who is involved in plagiarism.  2 The one who is not your friend but always want to indulge in your life, just because of habit  "sabke kaam me tang adana" The characteristics of these type of person is that they want to indulge soo much into your life despite being not even your friend.  What they do is they will keep an eye of all your activity and they will even stalk your closed ones account.  3 The one

Valentine's Day just got over and today i - Nidhi Rawal your love Guru 😉 is  going to share some relationship advice that you should adopt for healthy relationship. Before going into relationship ask yourself this questions: 1 - Are you really in love or it is just rush of hormones? 2 - what do you want from that relationship in longterm? 3 - are you going in relationship just because all your friends are committed? 4  - Do You want to be in relationship just because you feel lonely? 5 - if that relationship becomes serious will you marry that person? 6 - if yes then is intercaste marriage allowed in your culture? Will your parents agree? Get sure of all these questions 1st, then think of dating someone or getting into relationship. Because your unsurety may ruin SOMEONE'S life. A person can make you or break you,  choose partner very carefully. At a young age, for most of people love is just rush of hormones/ mere attraction. Saying someone &quo

A movie is releasing titled "Thappad"....it describes a girl ending her years of relationship because that guy slaps her. Now question  arise: Had she done correct? ........yes definitely. Our society is like : "Ek thappad hee toh maara hai, ishme kya badi baat ho gayi"!!! The key point for increasing crime on women is "Tolerance" ,  when doer do the crime and if victim doesn't oppose, it will become habit of doer to repeat things again and again. From childhood girls are being taught to remain silent......silent in the sense : "if any person do anything wrong , she should not raise her voice, she should tolerate that". ......ofcourse this thing is not taught by everyone,  but this thing is passed majorly by parents who has orthodox thinking and upbringing among people who has orthodox mentality. Whatever crime it can be, from verbal abuse to physical abuse, from  'cuss words' or just a slap.......one should learn to op

1 - Don't be available for someone all the time, they won't value your presence Everytime life is not about giving all your to someone else, you need to have your own dreams, aspirations,  you should also take out time to work on your own self,  on your mental health as well as physical health. People in relationship believe that they should be available all the time for the other person, but in long term it is going to harm you, your importance will be reduced , they will take you granted,  they will not value about your life. That's why 1st priority should be on your "Ownself". When we love ourselves,  people will definitely love us 2 - Do not take decisions in a moment, give time then decide Decisions taken in anger or happiness both proved  to be Harmful. Decision on anything is a big deal , never take decisions in rush, give proper time then decide. We are always tend to take wrong decisions in anger, and in too much happiness make us