BE THE CHANGE WITH NIDHI

"Pyaar hua ikrar hua......pyar se phir kyu darta hai hai dil " Above  lyrics perfectly fits in our life when we are in love Here are the detailed version of steps everyone goes through in love : Love interest starts with attraction or many times through common liking/disliking. In beginning  couples feel soo much loved,  they behaves exact the same way the partner wants, they gives each other whole lot of time, and ....as quote say "love is blind"...is totally True, it make one ignore bad habits of an individual in love. But later, a stage arise when one feel everything as "too much".....one start feeling that their freedom is snatched away ....one start getting too much irritated of the relationship.....the habits of person which one don't like start showing up. And eventually many relationships fall apart. Million of youths go through the same process. These are the lessons you need to learn for a Good Relationship  - Don't p

Most of generation of 90's and later on believe in love marriage, most of them think that  one cannot live with the person whom  they are "not in love". In love marriage parents involvement is at very later stage.....at 1st people know each other, make sure that they are compatible for each other or not, and nowadays a new trend is going on of "LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP". Do you think love has remained the same as it was in past ? ......bcoz of new trend there is a very darkside of all these. In past families were involved,  "samaj" was involved and many things......despite not being in love people were not cheating at each other,   "breakup and commit again soon " cultures was never there. People were not breaking up or were not going to court for divorce,  they used to mutually talk as resolves the issue. But.....now new culture people are left broken, cheated and some even face "blackmailing". When some issues arise wi

Somewhere in society the word "boldness" is wrongly interpreted. Some even think that being bold is  going against ethics.....let me correct you here. Being bold doesn't demand you to do "wrong things" . Real boldness is speaking up when someone is treated unfair, speaking up for your own, speaking up fearlessly. Why some people lack  boldness ? They lack because of fear ......"public fear" - of being judged wrongly by people around them or fear of getting trolled. We don't need to think of people as long as "statement we make is not against moral ethics or it is not stupid or when it doesn't harm anyone". Being bold doesn't signify  that you should support wrong things. Lots of people  around me especially girls thinks that  "Smoking, drinking, partying" makes them bold.......    doing these thing is an individual choice, and it doesn't signify boldness. Another misinterpretation is wearing wester

While whole world is quarantined due to pandemic, it is affecting mentally as we as physically. What most are doing is - EAT, SLEEP, NETFLIX AND REPEAT Above is good if you are lazy, but if you want to stay fit even without gym then read out complete blog Doing Home cardio - it doesn't require much space, just 45 mins a day will help you to stay fit. Excercises which you can do - Spot Running, crunches, pushups, mountain climbing....and  many other you can get from YouTube. Do 4 set of each 15 counts And abs workout will definitely help you to reduce belly fat. Eating clean You can make your body lean and loss weight just  by following this diet- Follow Below steps: Reduce Regular food intake for 2 weeks. Include vegetables in your lunch, Have protien in your dinner and in breakfast you can have just oats. MOST IMPORTANT -  STOP OUTSIDE FOOD Eating clean will  make your hormones fall in place, and you will surprised by seeing good changes in your

"SHARMAJI 'S SON TOPPED IN BOARDS........look at your scores", "SHARMAJI 'S SON GRABBED A JOB IN GOOGLE, .......you are working at not a very high fii firm", SHARMAJI'S SON IS REPRESENTING OUR COUNTRY AT WKF......look at you , just a national medalist"....... these are most common dialogues by most of Indians parents which are we used to in day to day life.  Above all are most common examples of Comparative Analysis. What ever post you are, which ever job you have been doing, whatever studies you have been doing -  one  thing most of us do is "Comparative Analysis". What is Comparative Analysis? In this we tend to compare our lives with others, we don't value the things we have and tend to gain life which others are living. Dreaming of good life and Comparative Analysis are totally different things. In comparative Analysis,  you will come across dialogues like "My friend is doing this and i m stucked here",

In life many things seems very difficult to us, we are unable to do that despite doing soo much hardwork. Is there anything like "very difficult to do", exists? Some task are very easy to do and some "we" find it very difficult. Nothing is like easy or difficult, if you have learnt that "particular work"  u will easily accomplish and if you haven't, then you may find it very difficult in beginning. - Nidhi Rawal When someone around you tells "It is very very difficult, it is impossible to achieve "........please don't listen to all such words. It is possible to do everything, at beginning we don't even know it is easy or difficult,  when we listen to other people who have failed in its accomplishment , we indirectly feed in our mind that "This task is very difficult,  I can not do it, I can't complete it". You might have heard story of 2 brothers. Two brothers were playing and  elder one falls into the

Everyday we talk about women empowerment,  equal rights, equal opportunity,..........what does all these terms signify,  it just signify that women are not treated equally in our society and even sometimes by using all these terms  that we are indirectly pointing a woman lesser compared to a men We always talked these terms not because a girl lacks skills, it is just because we are trying to prove that men are always dominating. Women can do anything, she is equally capable as a men, from science to SPORTS, from fashion industry to Top entrepreneur, there is not a single field left where women are not leading.  Women are always INSTRUCTED about what should she do and what she shouldn't......whyyy???....just because of idiology which is pre-existing since years While growing up she is instructed that "Don't play with boys", "learn cooking because after marriage you have to just be a housewife" , in studies she is instructed "Don't ta